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makeup advice forum–: Islam – Sex before marriage & getting married?
I am sorry if i have posted this question in the wrong place. I originally posted in the religion forum but was told to direct my question to the Ramadan section.

I have asked this question before, but didn’t get many answers, and the answers i did get were very unhelpful and people just giving their opinions. I am now attempting to ask the question again with hopefully some more informative answers.

I was raised Catholic, even though my family are the most un-religious people you will ever meet.

I met a Muslim guy and started dating him. We have now been together for 3 1/2 years Mashallah.

I have been researching and learning about Islam for about the past 2 years and i am pretty learned in the religion (i even teach my boyfriend things about the religion that he didn’t know) Mashallah.

Recently, i have become abit more religious. I have started wearing less and less makeup, stopped wearing nail polish, i am keen to remove my hair extensions because they are Haram etc.

Here is the thing – me and my partner have already had sex – many times! After reading about what a great sin it is in Islam, i have now told him that there will be NO SEX until we get married. He got pretty angry about this and told me that the ‘no sex’ ban won’t last and that i won’t be able to help myself and we will end up having sex again. I assured him that won’t happen.

I am very eager to get married now because i know that our relationship is Haram, and the more i learn about Islam the more i want to go to the Mosque, revert and straight away get married so we are not doing any sins.

My question is this – If i regret having sex before marriage and repent, and we get married, will our marriage be Halal or Haram? I have read on websites that it is highly recommended to marry the person in which you had pre-marital sex with, and do it as soon as possible so you will be Halal for each other. I know a few of my Muslim friends who had sex before marriage and ended up getting married to that same person in which they had sex with. So, i’m assuming that it’s valid. I also know of women who have gotten pregnant before marriage and HAD to get married to the babies father,

I would appreciate advice from Muslims – No Christian comments from people saying “OMG don’t convert to Islam it’s such a bad religion etc.” like what happened last time.

I am reverting for ALLAH (SWT) And NOT for my boyfriend. If we broke up tomorrow, i would still revert to Islam Inshallah
Irish Girl – What are you talking about? I specifically said Muslims only, because i knew people like you would get on here and bad-mouth the religion. Please take your negativity elsewhere.
Soul – Thankyou very much! Probably the best answer i have received
Just to clarify a few things quickly –

Is your bf willing to marry at this moment of time? I don’t think so – we have spoken about it but he thinks we are too young and he has no money saved up, nowhere for us to live if we got married etc. and i am starting University in a few weeks, so maybe we are not ready financially.

Yes, i believe i am more practicing than him. I am also going to be going to my friend’s house regularly for her and her mother to teach me how to pray. That is probably the only thing i am yet to learn. I already fast in Ramadan – I fasted last year and the year before that. It was a good feeling

do you think after you marry he’ll be willing to progress further in his faith? – I am not sure. I would LOVE him to become more religious, but i don’t think that will happen. He doesn’t pray etc. I try now to speak to him about religion and he either changes the subject or “doesn’t know” the answ

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Answer by βﾚⅰ₮z
My answer here sister:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmUfFJgJSnPMBFaEPURstMPsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20110212021857AACDCBX

salam

Answer by M S
salam alikum / peace be upon you
ya_shami@yahoo.ca
for last 10 years, I have seen many similar stories, I need to tell you about,

Answer by لا إله إلا الله‎ Abdulmalik
Salam. This bf/gf relationship is Haram as well. So leave him, and find a good pious muslim to marry. Wassalam.

Add : Its amazing how so many sisters are recommending her to get married to him. In what standard is he a good muslim and would be a good husband from the apparent characteristics ? (He doesn’t even pray – and ask any scholar, if they were married, and someone stopped praying and insisted on not praying, the marriage would be over, because he has disbelieved) – Sister – read this : http://islamqa.com/en/ref/5208 “Neglecting prayer out of laziness” – If he is not praying, marrying him is not possible – and if you did, that marriage and relations within it would be classed as Adultery/Zina.

And to Shining – I wouldn’t consider marrying a girl who even held the hand of a boy ever, let alone had a bf, let alone was no longer a virgin.

Add : Soul – clearly he is not willing to change – I am looking at the issue from the practical point of view, not from the fantasy possibilities fairytale hypothetical point of view and btw, this is what the Sahabah ra were upon – Eg, she said “i don’t think that will happen. He doesn’t pray etc. I try now to speak to him about religion and he either changes the subject” & “told me that the ‘no sex’ ban won’t last and that i won’t be able to help myself and we will end up having sex again.” – The correct way is to cut off All relations with this person Immediately. If he begins praying etc later, she can consider him – if she hasn’t found another pious brother, which should be the case.

Answer by Michael Gordon
I dont really know what your question is, but in my opinion i dont think there is anything wrong with sex before marriage, because if you think about , God never said that, no one has ever spoken to god or seen god and how could god speak, it was profets that said about sex before marriage and i think that they had no more connection with god thank anyone else did, i am not athiest and i believe in god, but i do not go to church because i believe that you are no more connected with god in church than you would be at home, because churches were built by people out of bricks, so i dont think you are making any sins by having sex with your boyfriend, because if you think about it, god made us and gave us our reproductive organs so god obiously intented for us to have sex.

Answer by CeBits
You should not follow any religion blindly, sacrificing your happiness and that of your spouse to satisfy something that was interpreted and modified over the centuries by many people. You should follow your faith, not the book. Do as you fell it’s right. Don’t follow any religion in fear that if you don’t you’ll be doomed to eternal misery and punishment. Remember that every religion (including the Islam) has loosen boundaries and many things aren’t specifically instructed, those things are usually interpreted by the followers or the communities.

To answer your question, it will be Haraam according to the most strict Islamic followers. But remember Haraam also prohibits swearing, consumption of certain foods (like pork and alcohol) etc.

Good luck and loosen up.

Answer by Soul
Hey… first of all whatever you do don’t contact anyone that’s asked you to contact them in the given answers here….sincere advice…’you don’t need to here all about it’…

Anyways sister about the sex before marriage repent sincerely and don’t do it again….that’s a sign of true repentance and it will avoid you gaining any sins …you seem more practicing than your bf but I shouldn’t assume things….Your marriage will be halal if you both repent and marry..Is your bf willing to marry at this moment of time?

”He got pretty angry about this and told me that the ‘no sex’ ban won’t last and that i won’t be able to help myself and we will end up having sex again. I assured him that won’t happen.”

By this he seems kind of weak in self control etc…do you think after you marry he’ll be willing to progress further in his faith?If you clearly think he’ll make a good husband and your both willing to become better muslims then you should marry definitely….

Good luck tc…hope things turn out well for you

@Bhaiya (Abdul Malik) I think most of the girls mean if he’s willing to change by praying 5 times, learn more about the deen to become a better muslim then marry him if not then let go…

@ sister OK…If he’s not willing to marry you yet..then its going to be hard and chances are if you’re really into each other…haraam will happen…I get what you mean about not being able to cope financially..I see a friend whose struggling after marriage at the moment badly but she wont let people know…

Masha’Allah that’s good…it seems like you’re very willing to learn and are serious but your bf’s not too serious like you said ‘but i don’t think that will happen’….I’d say make it clear to him that you’re going to change and see what his plans are….you cant make people change they have to have it in them to change and pray… like you do…If he doesn’t want to then I guess it wont work out and you’ll grow apart after marriage etc…I don’t wanna say let go of him because that will hurt him if he loves you alot but explain to him why and if he really loves you he’ll make an effort to study Islam..but it shouldn’t be for you…it should be for himself..hope you get what I mean…basically

willing to change,starts praying etc (before marriage) = marry him
not willing to change= let go of him.. for it will help you both….maybe he’ll realize…if he’s good he’ll change by himself if he’s not then he wont care and stay the same…you shouldnt worry too you’ll probably find someone better in your fate…thats hard to accept when you’re in love but its very true…

Sister ‘she said’ said it perfectly…”Once you take your Shahada all your previous sins are forgiven.”..we have less time and once all your sins are forgiven after taking the shahada( see how lucky you are) do everything to prevent them happening even if it means letting go of what you ‘love’…

@Bhaiya ..true you looked at it realistically straight away…it always helps when you explain better thanks Lol

Answer by Hope – أمل
I am glad you will be reverting! Alhamdulilah!
Repent and don’t repeat it and stop dating him [get married to him!]
Allah swt is merciful, of course He will forgive you if you repent

Salaam xx

Edit – After you revert, do you think your boyfriend is a good enough person to get married to? He seems to be a weak Muslim…Think about this before marrying him

Answer by sHiNinG BriGhT sTaR
Looking at Abdul Malik’s answer, he is like asking u to choose him…LOL…;P

p.s. Who is that lucky girl/woman/widow/aunty/grandma?

Answer by  
You should be lashed hundred times first according to Quran…

The [unmarried] woman or [unmarried] man found guilty of sexual intercourse – lash each one of them with a hundred lashes, and do not be taken by pity for them in the religion of Allah , if you should believe in Allah and the Last Day. And let a group of the believers witness their punishment. (Quran 24:2)

and you are not meant to marry a Pure Muslim guy. If you marry the guy with whom you’d have sex before, it will be halal !

The fornicator does not marry except a [female] fornicator or polytheist, and none marries her except a fornicator or a polytheist, and that has been made unlawful to the believers. (Quran 24:3)

Answer by testi_cool
If you are or were Christian then you would know that sex before marriage is frowned upon. It is same for jews. Saying that, Muslims, Christians and jews often have sex before marriage. Simple fact as you know your muslim boyfriend and you as a Christian are having sex. Do the religions allow this behaviour? No, but this is the 21st century. I say live a good life. Whether that be by helping little old ladies cross the road or by simply helping someone in need.

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